LESSON 10

*December 1 - 7

Meekness in the Crucible

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The Week at a Glance: 

What is the relationship between suffering and meekness? How can we, in our own meekness and broken places, be a witness to others? How can meekness really be a strength, not a weakness, for the Christian?

*Study this week's lesson to prepare for Sabbath, December 8.

Broken Bread, and Poured-Out Wine

Oswald Chambers has said that we are to become "broken bread and poured-out wine" for others. What do you think he means by this?  

All through the Bible there are examples of people being "broken" to serve others. Moses was called to endure unending waves of gossip and criticism as he led people to the Promised Land. Joseph was called to a journey that involved betrayal and imprisonment as he was brought to a position of service in Egypt. In each case, God permitted the situations in order that His people's lives could become theaters of. His grace and care, not only for themselves but for the good of others, as well. God may use us in the same way. It is easy to feel angry or hurt in such situations. But as we noted yesterday, meekness is the God-given ability to endure such things "with patience and without resentment."

Read Ezekiel 24:15-27. What's happening here? Why was Ezekiel put through this crucible?

In verse 24 God says, " "Ezekiel will be a sign to you; you will do just as he has done. When this happens, you will know that I am the Sovereign Lord" ' " (NIV). Through Ezekiel's example the people of Israel were going to be convicted of the truth about who God was, the Sovereign Lord—as they experienced the fulfillment of the prophecy that Ezekiel's life was symbolizing. But they would see this only because Ezekiel became broken in the fingers of God—for them. Who knows how many people will see "the Sovereign Lord" through us in our own broken places, as well?

Sooner or later life itself breaks us all. What has been your experience with being broken? What lessons have you learned? How can your own broken soul be used by the Lord to help other people?

Interceding for Grace

Read Exodus 32:1-14. What role do we find Moses playing here?  

After the people began worshiping the golden calf, God decided they had gone too far and announced that He would destroy the people and make Moses a great nation. But rather than taking up God's offer, Moses pleaded for God to show grace to His people, and God relented.

Exodus 32:1-14 raises two important issues. First, God's offer to destroy the rebellious people and bless Moses was a test for him. God wanted Moses to demonstrate just how much compassion he felt for these desperately disobedient people. And Moses passed. Like Jesus, he pleaded for mercy for sinners. This reveals something very interesting: Sometimes God may also allow us to face opposition, He might allow us to be in a crucible so that He, we, and the watching universe can see how much compassion we have for those who are wayward.

What reasons did Moses give for asking the Lord not to destroy Israel?  

Second, this passage shows that opposition and disobedience are calls to reveal grace. Grace is needed when people least deserve it. But when they least deserve it is also the time that we feel the least like offering it. But when Moses' sister, Miriam, was criticizing him, he cried out to the Lord to heal her from leprosy (Numbers 12). When God was angry with Korah and his followers and threatened to destroy them all, Moses fell on his face to plead for their lives. The next day, when Israel grumbled against Moses for the death of the rebels and God threatened to destroy them all again, Moses fell facedown and urged Aaron quickly to make atonement for them all (Numbers 16). In his own meekness, in his own selflessness in the midst of this crucible, Moses sought grace on behalf of those who certainly didn't deserve it.

Think about the people around you who you think are the least deserving of grace. How can you, with meekness and selfless humility, be a revelation of God's grace to them?

Loving Those Who Hurt Us

Someone once said: "Loving our enemies, then, does not mean that we are supposed to love the dirt in which the pearl is buried; rather it means that we love the pearl which lies in the dust. . . . God does not love us because we are by nature lovable. But we become lovable because He loves us."

When you look at your "enemies," what do you normally see—the pearl or the dirt around it?  

Read Matthew 5:43-48. Jesus calls us to love and pray for our enemies. What example from nature does Jesus give us there that helps us understand why we should love our enemies? What's the point He is teaching us?  

In verse 45, Jesus uses the example of His Father in heaven to illustrate how we should treat those who hurt us, who perhaps put us in the worst kind of crucibles. Jesus says that His Father sends the blessing of rain to both the righteous and the unrighteous; if God gives even the unjust rain, how then should we treat them, as well?

Jesus isn't trying to say that we should always have a warm, fuzzy feeling to everyone who causes us trouble, though this may also be possible. Fundamentally, love for our enemies is not meant to be a feeling we have for them but specific actions toward them that reveal care and consideration.

Jesus concludes this passage with a verse that often causes a lot of debate: " 'Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect' " (vs. 48, NIV). But the meaning is very clear in the context: Those people who want to be perfect as God is perfect must show love to their enemies as God shows love to His. To be perfect in God's sight is to love the opposition; and to do this takes a meekness of heart that only God can give.

Keeping in mind our definition of meekness ("enduring injury with patience and without resentment"), list the changes you must make in order to allow the Lord to give you the kind of meekness of heart that will help you have the right attitude toward "enemies."

A Closed Mouth

The most powerful examples of meekness in the crucible come from Jesus. When He said to come and "learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart" (Matt. 11:29, NKJV), He meant it in ways we probably can't imagine.

Read 1 Peter 2:18-25. Peter is offering some surprising advice to slaves. He describes how Jesus responded to unjust and painful treatment and suggests to them that He has left them "an example, that you should follow His steps" (1 Pet. 2:21, NKJV). What principles of meekness and humility in the crucible can we learn from Jesus' example, as expressed here by Peter?  

It is terrible to watch someone else unjustly treat another. And it is extremely painful when we are at the receiving end of such treatment. Because we normally have a strong sense of justice, when injustice occurs our instincts are to "put things right" while carrying what we believe to be a righteous and just anger.

It is not easy to live like this. It is perhaps impossible unless we embrace one critical truth that in all unjust situations, we must believe that our Father in heaven is in control and that He will act on our behalf when it is according to His will. This also means that we must be open to the possibility that like Jesus, we may not always be saved from injustice. But we must always remember that our Father in heaven is still with us and in charge.

Peter's advice, modeled from Jesus' life, is surprising because it seems to be that silence in the face of unjust suffering is a greater witness to the glory of God than "putting people right." When questioned by Caiaphas and Pilate, Jesus could have said a lot of things to correct the situation and to justify Himself, but He didn't. His silence was a testimony to His meekness.

How do you deal with situations in which you have been treated unfairly? How can you better apply some of the principles looked at here today to your own life?

Our Rock and Refuge

So often the most proud people, the most arrogant and pushy, are those who suffer from low self-esteem. Their arrogance and pride-and total lack of meekness or humility—exist as cover, perhaps even unconsciously, for something lacking inside. What they need is something we all need: a sense of security, of worthiness, of acceptance, especially in times of distress and suffering. We can find that only through the Lord. In short, meekness and humility, far from being attributes of weakness, are often the most powerful manifestation of a soul firmly grounded on the Rock.

Read Psalm 62:1-8. What seems to be the background for this psalm? What points is David making? What spiritual principles can you learn from what he is saying? Most important, how can you learn to apply these principles to your own life?  

"Without cause men will become our enemies. The motives of the people of God will be misinterpreted, not only by the world, but by their own brethren. The Lord's servants will be put in hard places. A mountain will be made of a molehill to justify men in pursuing a selfish, unrighteous course. . . . By misrepresentation these men will be clothed in the dark vestments of dishonesty because circumstances beyond their control made their work perplexing. They will be pointed to as men that cannot be trusted. And this will be done by the members of the church. God's servants must arm themselves with the mind of Christ. They must not expect to escape insult and misjudgment. They will be called enthusiasts and fanatics. But let them not become discouraged. God's hands are on the wheel of His providence, guiding His work to the glory of His name."—Ellen G. White, in Spalding and Magan Collection, p. 370.

Further Study:  

Discussion Questions:

How does humility allow us to "rise above" hurts and annoyances? What do you think is the most important characteristic of humility that allows us to do this?      In your own particular culture, how are the characteristics of humility and meekness viewed? Are they respected, despised, or what? What kind of pressures do you face in your culture that work against your cultivating these characteristics?      Are there any great examples of meekness and humility from people alive today? If so, who are they, how have they expressed these traits, and what can you learn from them?      Why is it that we so often equate meekness and humility with weakness?      We saw how David sought the Lord as a refuge. But how does that work, how is that refuge always manifested? In other words, how can we, as a church, be a refuge for those who need a refuge? What kind of refuge does your own local church provide? What can you do to help make it a place of refuge for those who need it?

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