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Friday: Further Thought – Repentance and Forgiveness — 9 Comments

  1. Tests and trials in life can strengthen our faith and bring glory to God. God may allow trials to deepen our trust and dependence on Him, but He never tempts anyone to do evil. As James 1:12–15 teaches, temptation comes not from God but from our own desires, which, when acted upon, give birth to sin and ultimately to death. Blessed, therefore, is the person who endures temptation and stands the test, for they will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love Him.

    Reflecting on the Lord’s Prayer, I sometimes think of the petition as, “Lead us, not into temptation,” emphasizing my need for God’s constant guidance because I often lead myselves into situations that make temptation more likely. Thus, whenever I am using the Lord prayer I have learnt to introduce a comma. Just thinking as an example of a person recovering from alcoholism who may return to old friends or familiar places and find themselves struggling once again. This reminds us of Paul’s words: “For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing” (Romans 7:19). We need God to lead us daily, helping us avoid paths that draw us away from Him and strengthening us to walk in obedience.

  2. We get a clue of how God deals with us and sin in the way He treated the Children of Israel all through the Bible history, each time they sinned maybe by committing idolatry which God detests so much, He allowed them to be carried away captives by their enemies or allowed them to be distressed by unfriendly situations and as soon as they repented He forgave and restored them. God forgave them more than the number of times they begged Him for forgiveness and interestingly each time they had a national revival God destroyed their enemies and in some cases they were not permitted to fight in the battle example is the Case of Hezekiah and Sennacherib king of Assyria in 2 Chronicles 32;

    “2 Chronicles 32:20-21 (KJV) And for this cause Hezekiah the king, and the prophet Isaiah the son of Amoz, prayed and cried to heaven.
    And the LORD sent an angel, which cut off all the mighty men of valour, and the leaders and captains in the camp of the king of Assyria. So he returned with shame of face to his own land. And when he was come into the house of his god, they that came forth of his own bowels slew him there with the sword”

    The interaction between the children of Israel and God were clear examples of the Bible passage that says that the righteous man falls seven times but rises again, with the help of Jehovah.

    God is more interested in our relationship with Him sinful or not and He is more than ever ready to help us restore and strengthen our relationship with Him anytime we call upon Him.

    Nothing should come in between our relationship with God nomatter the weight of the sin the Bible says that where iniquity abound grace abounds more because God is more willing and eager at that time to restore and reclaim the sinner from the devil, so no matter how bad the sin may appear, it is the time to run to God and not from Him for He will abundantly pardon.

    If we always look at sin through the eyes of God we will be more helpful in dealing with a sinner anything contrary is not Godly.

    Ellen G. White counseled that if the church disfellowshipped a member, that everyone should play a redemptive role to restore the member immediately so that the devil will not steal him or her away from God.

    God prefer relationship not judgement!!!!

    Happy Sabbath from here!!!

  3. At the end of this week’s study, we should ask ourselves two sets of questions:

    • What wrongdoings do we need to address? Who have we wronged?
    • Who do we need to forgive? What consequent actions must we take?

    We can talk about God’s forgiveness and our repentance until the cows come home, but until that reflects in our actions with others, it remains theoretical.

    James knew the danger of theoretical knowledge:

    Don’t fool yourself into thinking that you are a listener when you are anything but, letting the Word go in one ear and out the other. Act on what you hear! Those who hear and don’t act are like those who glance in the mirror, walk away, and two minutes later have no idea who they are, what they look like.

    But whoever catches a glimpse of the revealed counsel of God—the free life!—even out of the corner of his eye, and sticks with it, is no distracted scatterbrain but a man or woman of action. That person will find delight and affirmation in the action. James 1:22-25 MSG

    We need to get up from our comfortable lounge chairs and start interacting with the people who matter to us most.

  4. Temptations are challenges to relationship with God.They distract from a committed and loyal relationship with God. They are most likely to happen when we are careless about God’s will.
    Another favorite ground for temptation to breed is moments of despair, moments of dire need, and times of loss of hope and trust in God’s promises.

    However,temptations are dynamic and powerful and we cannot resist them solely on our own resources. We need the grace and power of God to sustain us. My fervent plea to God is He should not tarry to come to His children’s rescue in their moment of despair and need.

  5. May we allow God to teach us His ways that we should follow Him and abide in His directions always…

  6. Philippians 2:13 is a powerful reminder that God takes the initiative in saving us and in empowering us in relationship with him. He places the desire to change along with the ability to do so. Left to ourselves we would fulfill the lusts of our flesh to our eternal ruin. “But God…” If not for the many occurrences of that phrase and their following admonitions, we would be a hopeless mess. This is what happens when people try to live separated from the presence and power of God.

    I have been thoroughly blessed by the lesson study this week, as well as the comments submitted. The fellowship of like minded individuals, even virtually, helps us to grow. “As iron sharpens iron” we need each other. Thank you for helping me to be a sharper instrument for the Lord.

  7. When a person decides to become a Christian, does this person have a clear understanding that they do not join a ‘social club’? Yes, there are many layers when joining the fellowship of believers, but has it been made clear that the most important aspect when joining is to help the new believer establish a solid relationship with our heavenly Father and His Son, our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ?

    Can one say that the ultimate purpose for the Christian’s followship is to bond together after accepting the invitation to join our Bridegroom at His Wedding Feast? – to prepare us for it, to see to it that the oil is in our lamp that lights the ‘Way’, and to be waiting patiently?

    Some might say that this is obvious, but is it really? Have ‘repentance’ and ‘forgiveness’ taken their rightful place in our heart, providing these so very needful ingredients to establishes the solid bond that nurtures our personal and communal life, and helps with drawing closer to our God?

    “The ‘hard soil’ of our heart” needs to be broken down before we can establish a meaningful and fruitful relationships with each other and with our God. In my opinion, nothing is more important in a Christian’s born-again life then to know that we joined Jesus Christ to now live with/in Him in our Father’s spiritual Kingdom here on earth.

    Have we learned to humble ourselves and acknowledge our lost estate? Do we accept the Holy Spirit’s promptings? Have repentance and forgiveness taken their rightful place in our heart? Have we accepted the struggles common to carrying our cross by faith? If so, we live our life in response to the invitation to join the ‘wedding’ of the bride groom and His bride. By God’s Grace, we will receive our Wedding garment made of white linen – the ‘righteous acts of God’s holy people’ – Rev. 19:7-9

    • I understand what you are saying Brigitte, but we also need to understand the Christian pathway is not about fulfilling definitions but about growing relationships. Our relationships with one another are part of our relationship with God and while we may separate them forensically into components, they must grow together. In physics we often use vectors to describe things like force, and it is convenient to consider say vertical and horizonal components. But in the end ultimately the visible consequence is the combination of the components.

      Likewise, our relationships with God and with one another, are both components of our Christianity. Think how much of Christ’s teaching has to do with personal relationships.

      • Maurice – I am sorry to find that there is usually a ‘but’ in your response to my comments. Please refer to the third paragraph, as it relates directly to your caution to make sure to include our relationship with our fellow brethren and mankind in general.

        ‘Repentance and forgiveness’ have to take their place in our heart – Prov.4:23 ”Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.” Our relationship with our heavenly Father and our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ finds its expressions in our relationships with our fellow man.

        Yes, Maurice – “our Christian pathway is about growing relationships.” As our eyes are opened, our Christian life is all about practicing ‘repentance’ and ‘forgiveness’ within the context of maintaining our on love based relationship with God and our fellow man. Outside of this context – love -, establishing a healthy relationship with both cannot work because they go hand in hand – Prov.20-23.

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