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  1. I resonate with your “do nothing” approach to vindicating yourself when you are lied about. It is particularly important in today’s social media context, where confrontation and lies tend to get amplified.

    I had a confrontation with a woman doing commercial family photography in a bird nesting area and pointed out to her that she was disturbing brooding birds and young hatchlings. I explained to her what she was doing and quietly left. She went online and accused me of bullying her in front of her clients and using foul language. I wrote a stinging rebuke, really laying out the truth, then I paused. I said to myself that I knew how social media worked and I really knew better than to reply. I didn’t post my response and her comment received no attention.

    In the social media environment, I have seen large corporations undo themselves by getting involved in vindication discussions. I used to have a couple of case studies I would bring to the attention of my students.

    Moral of the story: Most of the time people will work it out for themselves.

  2. I praise God for you and your ministry. The Lord is blessing every time I read your articles. Thank you for allowing God to use to impact my life this way.

  3. A person of good character and sound judgment does not waste time trying to vindicate himself against falsehood. When we attempt to defend our character against every false accusation, we often give the lies more attention and place our integrity under unnecessary scrutiny.

    Jesus gave us profound wisdom when He taught us to pray for our enemies. During the trials on the night of His arrest, Christ did not dignify every false accusation with a response. He remained silent, composed, and entrusted His vindication to God.

    We do well to follow His example: live right, remain steadfast, pray for those who malign you, and let God defend your character.

  4. If only I got to learn this before now, I would have approached some issues differently I.e. learning not to argue back or defending yourself in the midst of lies. Nevertheless, we learn and grow every day.
    Thank You, Pastor William.

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At a camp meeting 40 years later, I happened to see Dr. I. demonstrating some kind of health product, if I remember correctly. (In my mind, I see only the image of him, much older, but still looking much like he did when I was a student, with a friend by my side.) I lingered a little but did not introduce myself. I briefly wondered whether he recognized me. I’m fairly sure that I was as recognizable to him as he was to me.

Had he changed? Or did he still feel superior in his “humility”? Should I talk to him? I didn’t know how to approach him, and was busy with friends. I still don’t know whether I should have said something. (Maybe I’m just a coward.)

If God wants him to see my story, his and my identity are clear enough in this post, that God can direct him to it.